You deserve to take care of yourself before everyone else. Remember the instructions when you fly: "In case of an emergency drop in air pressure, place your oxygen mask on first, before taking care of small children or traveling companions." You deserve to be first.
What are your favorite ways to take care of yourself during this holiday season? Choose some balance cards or make a list of things you want to do for yourself. Now go do some of the things you listed. Choose to be balanced in mind, body and spirit.
May you have a blessed holiday!